#Afuni What is masturbation? Is masturbation bad for health?
Masturbation is self-stimulating your genitals in a sexual way to the point
of reaching an orgasm. It is a very common behavior among men and women and
is a very normal part of growing up for children of both sexes.(To know more
about male masturbation please see: Male Masturbation: Side Effects, Benefits
and Risks ) Most children play with their genitals between the ages of two and
six. To a grown-up person, the sight of children fondling their own genitals can
feel disturbing because he/she looks at the act through adult filters. However,
this act is a very normal part of growing up for every child, as it is a process
of self-exploring their own bodies and discovering how each part of their body
responds to touch, and how some parts are more pleasurable than others. To a child
rubbing his/her genitals simply feels innocently pleasurable and is not “wrong” or
“bad”. These “adult filters” are introduced to the children by the adults, and often
the child ends up feeling confused and worried. The adults react to the child in the
same way that they saw their own parents or grown-ups around them react, while they
were exploring their own bodies as children. Therefore, they continue to carry those
feelings of shame and guilt and never got a chance to get comfortable with their own
sexuality. The act in itself is not “good” or “bad”, though in some cases religious
beliefs may induce people to label it as “bad”. The crucial factor in such a scenario
would be, how an adult approaches a child and without shaming the child makes the
child feel comfortable with his/her own body, and gently explains the propriety side
of it, if child indulges in the act in front of people. Sexual development is a very
much an essential part of normal growth and development for a child, just as physical
development, emotional development, learning and developing language and communication
skills are normal. Having said that, what also needs to be stated is, even though there
is nothing wrong with masturbation, it is also okay not to masturbate. Some people have
naturally lower levels of sexual desire or may decide that they want to abstain from
masturbation for religious or personal reasons. You can follow whatever option you feel
is best for you. Is it a ‘bad thing’ if women masturbate? I think the best way girls &
boys should do marriage before 20 age likes female should be 16 age & male should be 18
age that would be huge better for them forevermore otherwise they will be in danger zone
unnecessary both of male & female will be addict unnecessary habits likes masturbating
ill legal illicit sex oral sex toe sex watching sex meant porn videos or clips or movies
& sex gossips & sexual conversations & drugs narcotics liquor etcetera etcetera etcetera
otherwise their parents will feel regret if they will not marry to their children under
in 20 years age of their children indeed
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